Who Is SPEAK For?
- Content Curators
- Podcasters
- Broadcasters
- Stage Presenters
- Craft Instructors
- Coaches & Mentors
- Brand Ambassadors
- Networkers
- Hosts
- And anyone with a forward-facing brand
When I started, I felt like a mime…
If I’m honest, I was frustrated because I was really suffering from cotton mouth. I could talk passionately to friends and family, but the thought of standing in front of people—or even online—felt crippling. As I broke through, I learned that the fear was actually a fear of rejection—which makes a lot of sense. Putting yourself out there feels like standing naked in front of the world. It feels like the whole world is watching and judging you, but they’re not! It’s actually you judging yourself.
Now, with social media and personal brands evolving so much, we are marketing all of our content ourselves. Until you learn how to find your voice and start speaking—on reels, at networking events, and yes, even on stage—trust me, it’s going to transform your business, and I promise you, it’s going to transform your life. I thought I was paralyzed by the fear of speaking, but honestly, I just didn’t know how to do it.
Putting Yourself Out There in Your Marketing and Branding
If you’re struggling to find your voice, start with this simple (but challenging) exercise:
1. Film Yourself Talking for 2 Minutes.
Don’t prepare anything—just talk. Talk about your career, talk about the people you love… just talk.
2. Watch It.
Seeing and hearing yourself on camera can be uncomfortable at first. If you struggle with any part of this, go back to step one and start again.
THE PROCESS:
- Film It
• In the car or near a window for good lighting.
• Remember to smile!
- Watch It
• See yourself, hear yourself. If you can’t, film it again.
- Feel It
• If it feels uncomfortable or inauthentic, film it again.
- Accept It
• You’ll know when it’s authentic because you’ll start to like seeing yourself.
- Embrace It
• Notice your quirks and feel your words. This is a truly extraordinary exercise.
This process took me weeks, but I realized that when I was being the most genuine, I started to feel this warmth for myself—like I was seeing myself for the first time.
Here’s the thing: if it’s not authentic, you can’t watch it. You will know. So will everyone else.
As we enter this New Year/New You phase, set a powerful intention to truly put yourself and your business out there.
The January SPEAK workshop is already sold out. If you want to learn more and apply for the next workshop, the application link is HERE.
Sue!!! So happy to see you!
Completely agree, I am going to do the exercise today. See what it comes out.
Thank you for your wisdom and shine light on my path.